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The Goodbye Routine That Builds Confidence—In 3 Easy Steps

Starting kindergarten is a huge step for little learners—and the drop-off routine can make or break those early days. One of the best ways to ease the transition? A simple, consistent goodbye routine that builds trust, not tears.

Here’s a 3-step goodbye routine that works wonders:

1. Keep It Predictable

Use the same phrase each day—something like “I love you, you’ve got this, see you after snack!” This signals safety and structure.

2. Stay Calm and Cheerful

Even if your child clings or cries, resist the urge to linger or look worried. A confident goodbye tells your child: “I trust you can do this.”

3. Make It Quick

Short and sweet is best. Prolonged goodbyes can increase anxiety. A hug, a phrase, and a wave—then let the teacher step in.

At Kids Care Club, our teachers are trained to support emotional transitions like this. Whether it’s a quick redirection to a fun activity or a gentle hand-hold, we help each child feel secure as they adjust.

Consistency at home and school makes all the difference. So try your new goodbye routine during summer camp drop-offs or weekend outings—and you’ll both be ready when kindergarten begins.

✅ Pro tip: Attach a small photo or note to their backpack for comfort during the day.

 

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