The move to kindergarten can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking for kids and parents alike. Even children who’ve thrived in preschool may feel unsure about what’s next. But with a little planning and encouragement, you can help ease the transition and build your child’s confidence for their first big year.
Here are seven simple strategies that work:
- Start Talking Early Mention kindergarten casually in conversations—“When you’re in kindergarten, you’ll get your own cubby!” The more familiar it feels, the less scary it seems.
- Read Books About Starting School Stories like The Kissing Hand or Miss Bindergarten Gets Ready for Kindergarten are great tools for opening discussion and addressing fears.
- Visit a Kindergarten Classroom (If You Can) Drive by a nearby school or attend an open house. Seeing big kids in action makes kindergarten feel more real—and less mysterious.
- Practice Separation with Short Goodbyes Build independence with drop-offs at camp, a relative’s house, or even short babysitting sessions. Reassure them you’ll always return.
- Role-Play Common Situations Act out what to do if they need to ask for help, raise their hand, or line up. It’s a fun way to rehearse real-life skills.
- Build a Morning Routine Now Wake up, get dressed, eat breakfast, and get out the door—practice your future school-day flow to reduce stress later.
- Stay Positive (Even if You’re Nervous Too) Your child takes emotional cues from you. Focus on the exciting parts and show confidence in their ability to handle this new chapter.
- Arrange a playdate with neighborhood children or join summer programs. This will greatly support the transition into kindergarten. Building early social connections can help your child feel more comfortable and confident in a new environment
